What do you do when Plan A, which includes your vision of success and happiness for your teen, does not work out? What do you do when life is throwing you and your teen curveballs? Things like disease, rebellion, drugs, immoral influences, peer pressure, death, failed relationships, etc.
What do you do to navigate the unexpected challenges and disappointments?
Do you choose to resist reality, kick, scream, blame others, snarl at God OR adapt with grace, live with the hope and the faith that God redeems it all ?
Your response to the failure of Plan A matters. What you do greatly impacts what your teen will do when facing his/her own challenges.
Twelve years ago, when my children were ages were 6, 8 and 9, I was diagnosed with breast cancer. That was not part of Plan A. More recently, I have faced the death of my mother and other challenges, none of them part of Plan A. What I know is that God is in these dark places and “where darkness seems the deepest, the most radiant light is set to emerge.” (Streams in the Desert, April 25th)
God is the redeemer bringing something good out of our seemingly negative circumstances. God gives us his Holy Spirit to lead us and guide us in fresh and hope-filled directions. He heals our wounds and gives us strength to move forward. Our faith and our responses matter. God showed that to me in a mighty way on Friday night when my daughter sent me these two photos from an event which her sorority sponsors.

Running for me

God gives us hope
Is it just a coincidence that she belongs to a sorority whose philanthopy centers around breast cancer? Or is God’s mighty power on display saying that I give you hope and I redeem it all?
You can thrive, find strength, experience joy and dwell in peace in a life that you did not plan when you put your hope in the Lord. ISAIAH 40:31
Your teens are watching you.
MONDAY’S PRAYER
May the God of hope fill you and ______________ with all joy and peace as you trust in Him, so you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit. ROMANS 15:13